1- She's "in your face"
All of a sudden, you'll become aware of her presence everywhere -- she "just happens" to show up wherever you hang out, or you keep passing her in the hallway at work, or she "accidentally" bumps into you, or she maneuvers to stand close to you at a club.
2- She's got the right moves
An old saying goes, "Bodies don't lie." Nature has programmed humans with a complex set of non-verbal flirting signals that just flow spontaneously when they're interested. These range from the widening of the iris when looking at the object of desire to more overt displays such as smiling or touching.
- Pointing in your direction with her leg, foot, or shoulders
Leaning toward you while talking
Playing with or tossing her hair
Fondling a piece of jewelry (like an earring) or stroking the stem of her glass (big clue here!)
Keeping her eyes locked on you while she talks or drinks
Smiling when you check out her body
3- She's never too busy
This is the most cardinal rule of the dating game: if a woman is interested in going out with you, she will make herself available. This means that she will give you a work number or e-mail address. She will answer or return your call quickly. She will accept your invitation to get together -- and if she's busy on the day you specify, she will say something like, "Well, I can't this Saturday, but next Saturday would be fine, if that's okay."
4- She uses "The Probe" on you
"The Probe" is the female tool for ascertaining the level of a man's financial resources. It takes the form of seemingly casual questions, but behind it a ruthless calculator is ticking away. So when a woman first meets a man she might be interested in dating, she will quiz him on his job, where he lives, what kind of car he drives, all within the confines of what appears to be a natural conversation. If you give the "right" answers, then the flirting signals will follow; but if you aren't up to her "standards," she's gone in a cloud of dust.
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